For some of us, sex is still a taboo subject. But it shouldn’t be, as it’s part of our normal lives and we all should enjoy it. Reproductive health should be a priority for everyone and apart from the regular doctor check-ups and tests, using the right products for your intimate area and so on, sex is a matter that should be taken into consideration and that shouldn’t miss from your life.
It’s okay if you don’t feel like having sex at times, people’s libido is affected by so many factors these days that it can become less of a priority sometimes.
Stress, busy work schedules, kids, daily chores can often leave us exhausted and sex is the last thing that might come to our mind.
But keep this in mind: an active sex life is really important for a balanced lifestyle, because during sex your body secretes happy hormones, and you want those happy hormones flowing inside you, don’t you?
Moreover, a balanced sex life will keep your intimate area healthy, avoiding hormonal imbalances that can often be very unpleasant.
It doesn’t matter if you’re too self-conscious to try and spice things up in the bedroom or if you’re adventurous and love to try new things, just try to have things your way and find a partner that can understand, accept and make things comfortable for you.
Speaking of this, it doesn’t matter if you have a lifelong partner with whom sex can be amazing even after years passing by or if you are experiencing with different partners as long as you stay safe, use protection and don’t force yourself into doing things you’re not ready for or things you don’t want.
You and your body are the most important things for yourself, so make sure you always put yourself and your needs first and don’t be afraid if you don’t feel like experimenting all the time, or if you don’t have an orgasm every time you have intercourse or if you simply don’t feel in the mood to have sex. Your body always knows better.
And because nice guys finish last (no pun intended), we’ve left you a list of positions that can be a real treat for you.
Stand on your hands and feet and have your partner pick you up by your pelvis. Grip his waist with your thighs. This position allows a deeper penetration and it makes your arms stronger at the same time, so it’s a win-win! If you get tired, try resting on a side of the bed so you can rest your hands.
2. Face Off
While your partner sits on the bed, a chair or a table, you face him while seated on his lap. This way, you’re in control of the angle and depth, and being seated will support you, so you can go on like this for a long time. While experiencing this position, use your hands and put them on your partner’s body parts (whichever of them are more aroused) to spice things up.
3. Doggy Style
While sitting in a tabletop position, allow your partner to kneel behind you with his upper body straight while penetrating you. This position is excellent for G-point stimulation.
4. Magic Mountain
Legs bent, leaning back on his hands and forearms, your partner sits in this position and you do the same and move forward until you make contact. This position will allow you to achieve a better connection while looking at each other.
While kneeling on top, you push your partner’s chest and slide up and down his thighs. For more support, you can lay back and support yourself on his thighs. This position will allow you to dominate and feel more empowered.
6. Reverse Cowgirl
While your partner lays on his back, you straddle him facing his feet, this way you will have control and you can show your partner the pace you like.
We all know it, it’s nothing new. You lay on your back while he lays on top of you, facedown. As simple as this position is, it’s super versatile, allowing you to move your legs into different angles, touch his body with your hands and many, many other things.
8. The Chairman
While your partner sits on the edge of the bed or a chair, you sit on him, facing away – this position is amazing for hitting your G-spot and you can use your hands and be creative in order to spice things up.
9. Table Top
For this position, you will either need a tall bed or a counter or, obviously, a table. This position is great for face to face connection.
10. The Snake
For this position, you will have to lie with your face down, on your stomach, while your partner lies down on top of you and slides in from behind. This position is amazing for deep penetration.
Got your interest? Now go at home and experience all these positions with your partner and have some fun! Relax, enjoy sexual intercourse, it’s one of life’s little pleasures after all.