Yoni massage is a tantric sex practice that allows you to explore the body in a sensual way, massaging the vagina and helping you achieve multiple orgasms. The word yoni comes from Sanskrit and it means “sacred space” so this technique is about making the vagina owner feel honored, worshipped, loved. The tantric yoni massage can also be used for those who have a past of sexual trauma and it can even have a healing approach.
How to give a yoni massage:
- Set the scene.
The most important thing is to have an open mind and heart when you start to explore this technique and no body related judgments. Lie comfortable on your back and place a pillow under your hips so you can keep your knees up while your feet are grounded. Make sure you have a silky, aromatic massage oil to use.
- Connect to your breath.
In tantric sex, breathe is essential and the one you should use in tantric yoni massage is called “bliss breath”. You’ll need to constrict the back of your throat and inhale while hearing a whispering sound. Release the same sound when you exhale. This slow, deep, audible breathe will help you go out of your head, spreading orgasmic energy throughout your whole body, helping you achieve a generalized orgasm not just a clitoral one.
- Warm up.
To warm up and relax your body for sexual intercourse, you can slowly build arousal, through massage. Start with a gently massage on the belly because it has several nerves endings, continue with the rib cage, under the breasts, between the breasts and move slowly towards the lower abdomen. When the body starts to respond to the touch, circle the breasts without touching the nipples and as the body increases its response, start circling the areolae, teasing the nipples with light then medium and stronger pinching and touches. Once the nipples are stimulated, move to the main techniques of yoni massage.
The 5 yoni massage techniques:
Use the tip of your finger to circle the tip of the clit and alternate pressure while varying from smaller to larger circles until you’ll stimulate arousal.
- Pushing and pulling
Use push and pull strokes on the clit and slide your finger down the both sides of the clitoris shaft. Some women are more sensitive on one part than the other.
- Tugging and rolling
Pull gently the clit, grasp its sides and tug back and forth, varying your strokes and moving lower on the both sides of the lips as well. Hold the clitoris firmly and start rolling it between the thumb and your index finger as if you would make a tiny violin motion with the fingers.
Use your fingers to tap the clit in varying rhythms from slow to fast and notice what the body responds to most.
- G-spot massage
Slide your first two fingers into the vagina after you curve them like the letter C. To find the G-Spot, look for the rigid area at the end of the vaginal canal that should be located about two inches in, behind the exterior clit. Use a come-hither movement to massage that area with your curved fingers. Use slow and fast strokes and try to stimulate the external clit in the same time or to place some pressure above the pubic bone.
Mix all of the above techniques and make sure you stimulate the nipples, the clit and the G-spot as well.
Yoni massage will help you feel waves of pleasure throughout your whole body, so you should be getting more than just one orgasm. You can practice it alone or with your partner or it can be just a part of a sexual intercourse.
How to practice edging through tantric yoni massage.
Great to practice edging as well, tantric yoni massage can help you bring your body to the point of exploding from pleasure, then slow it down, pulling away and building the tension back so you can create multiple waves of pleasure and enjoy multiple orgasms.
During the cool-down periods, to keep your body grounded, you should place your hand on the heart and feel that loving energy. Then continue building the arousal to the edge of orgasm, backing off and slowing down every time you’re about to come. The longer you do these back and forth movements, the more pleasure you will experience.